Download the Grindr app or browse hands-free with Grindr Web—the same Grindr you know and love, now available on your laptop or PC with no download required. Accidents happen, especially when you’re exploring new territory. Embracing imperfection makes the experience more genuine and enjoyable. Canned porn lines like “Who’s your daddy?” are equally likely to induce eye-rolls as they are arousal. Once you’ve done that, use these lines to get started.
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… You like eatin’ that hole out for me, don’t you? You like to feel a real big cock up that fuckin’ hole, don’t you? In the baroque flights of fancy of the most extravagant wordsmiths, dirty talk becomes a kind of found poetry. Again, how naughty or how vanilla should it be—that depends on you and only you. Of course, you can begin light and safe and, over time, find the right sexy words and use them more. So if the thought of it makes you cringe but you’d still like to give it a try, we’ve got you—here’s a beginner’s guide to dirty talk.
Work toward developing your own style, fantasies, and sexual identity
Say something like, “you are so sexy to me,” and go from there. Sex can bring intimacy into a relationship, bringing you and your partner closer, so dirty talk and sexting can remind your long-distance partner that you’re thinking of them and can’t wait to physically have sex with them. It’s no secret that dirty talk is a really sexy thing. There are pornos dedicated specifically to people talking dirty to their partner and for good reason. But that doesn’t mean you can just say anything that pops into your head. You need to know the dirty things to say to a girl that’ll actually turn her on.
19. “Stop talking and just do me!”
Sexting, the 21st-century version of the classic steamy love letter, is sending sexually explicit messages via text. It’s no surprise how popular sexting has become when you consider how much time the average person spends on their phones, but you can sext via email and other messaging services, too. If you decide to test out a new conversation topic, take it slow. Dirty talk might feel awkward, especially at first, but you’ll find your rhythm with time and practice.
However, discussing boundaries and consent is crucial to ensuring both partners are comfortable and enjoy the experience. Be yourself.There are plenty of lists out there with suggested phrases you can use during sex to up the dirty talk. A lot of the time, when people think of “dirty talk,” they think of the sort of graphic and vulgar dialogue used in porn.
I’m ecstatic just thinking about your cock every day. I can’t imagine sharing you with anyone, you’re so freaking hot. I can’t stop thinking of what you did to me last night. Don’t throw out anything super vulgar unless tonally all signs point to that being a good idea, Block said, calling on personal experience to illustrate her point. “Talking dirty can help long-distance relationships as it allows for a physical connection which is otherwise a challenge when being distant,” explains Michaela Thomas, a clinical psychologist and author of The Lasting Connection.
- But O’Reilly says that indulging your sense of humor can help both you and your partner ease into things.
- This can be really erotic and doesn’t require you to quickly recall phrases or scenarios.
- It’s flat out recommended that initial explorations into dirty talk start as a solo activity, whether it’s practicing getting vocal or just exploring linguistic genres of erotica while masturbating.
- Every person has their particular trigger words that feel too jarring for them.
Begin with simple phrases like “You’re so sexy.” You can gradually introduce more explicit language as you gain confidence and figure out what you like. Gabrielle Kassel (she/her) is a queer sex educator and wellness journalist who is committed to helping people feel the best they can in their bodies. In addition to Healthline, her work has appeared in publications such as Shape, Cosmopolitan, Well+Good, Health, Self, Women’s Health, Greatist, and more! In her free time, Gabrielle can be found coaching CrossFit, reviewing pleasure products, hiking with her border collie, or recording episodes of the podcast she co-hosts called Bad In Bed. Can you come up with an elaborate fantasy featuring handcuffs, a fire-breathing dragon, and a multi-orgasmic sex sesh? Sure, if that’s the kind of verbal hanky-panky you and your partner have agreed on.
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Dirty talk gives people permission to surrender to their deepest, darkest, wildest fantasies. Sex is supposed to be dirty, erotic, and most of all fun. For example, some women may get turned on by words like “slut” or “whore,” even though they find it offensive outside the bedroom. Women are able to take control of the word and use it on their own terms.
A comment like that will probably push them over the edge and have them pouncing on you. Once you’re sold on the idea of dirty talk, it can be challenging to know where to begin. A shared bottle of wine can lubricate the conversation so you’re loose to share your more niche desires. Just do yourself a favor and cut yourself off before things get sloppy. Have a safe word or signal to let your partner know if they say something that makes you uncomfortable.
If you’re unsure, listen to Quinn’s audio erotica for insight into how others talk dirty. Quinn’s playlists offer real-world examples of how to sound sexier to set the tone for your own sexual adventures. You can even listen with your partner(s) for inspiration. The first place everyone thinks of when it comes to talking dirty to your boyfriend is the bedroom. If you want hotter, more passionate and intense sex, then try saying some of these dirty talking examples to him. A wholly underrated strategy of dirty talk is simply saying what you like.
